Lynn, Frank,Joanna, Cristina Spinato and family
Lynn, Frank and girls
So sorry to hear about your mom Lynn. I’m glad she had such a great family to care for her. Please take care and thinking of you all.
DAVREUX (NEE SCHARFF), Lorraine Mae
1934 - 2025
Lorraine passed away peacefully surrounded by the love of her family on March 23, 2025, age 91, at the Blanche River Health-Kirkland Lake site.
Born February 19, 1934 on a farm near Hartney, Manitoba to John and Laura Scharff. Lorraine was the little sister to the late Marge (Barrows) and Bill Scharff. An active child and teenager, she was the pitcher on the soft-ball team (and proud of that as they made it to the provincials!), enjoyed skating, piano lessons, spending time with her brother, and was a member of the 4-H Club, all in addition to working on the farm. Lorraine had a strong work ethic and never complained—and remained that way all her life.
In 1954 Lorraine married Neil Davreux, the handsome fellow who lived on a nearby farm. In the following 63 years they would seldom be apart. In 1958 Neil accepted a job offer in Larder Lake, ON, and they relocated with their two daughters. Two more daughters were later welcomed into the family. Many trips were made back to Manitoba to visit family as remaining close to their relatives was important to them.
A stay-at-home mom, Lorraine learned to be thrifty and resourceful—honing her homemaking skills including baking, sewing, knitting, quilting, pickling, and preserving jams and jellies—the latter, a testament to her sweet tooth! The cookie jar had an endless supply of oatmeal cookies, Neil's favourite and her grand-daughters too. Many friends and family members were recipients of her beautifully knitted slippers, sweaters and mitts. Right up to her later years, her knitting needles could be heard clicking away as she sat and passed the evenings. She braided many rugs using recycled material. Making jig saw puzzles and reading were other favourite pastimes. Throughout her life she kept herself busy and it seemed she always had a project on the go. Mom, along with Dad, enjoyed touring around to parts of Canada on many road trips and vacations with family.
For many years, she enjoyed curling and was a member of the Larder Lake United Church Women's Auxiliary and the Larder Lake Senior's Club. Most of all, Mom loved being outdoors. Even as a young teenager, she preferred to be outside doing chores than inside doing housework! She enjoyed tending to her flower and vegetable gardens, picking blueberries, camping and working alongside Neil cutting and stacking their winter's wood. Fit as a fiddle, she discovered cross-country skiing in her middle age years and skied well into her 80's. When it was time to slow down, then came snow-shoeing. Staying active, Mom enjoyed walking and was always the one upfront leading the way.
Over the years, Mom was a helpful neighbour and reliable friend to many. Being very modest, she never liked to draw attention to herself or have anyone make a fuss over her. She was the one in the background, getting things done. She had a quiet but friendly nature, was easygoing, independent, cheerful and quick to accomplish any task.
Small but mighty, very determined (and stubborn!), she had to be reminded not to go on the roof to shovel off the snow. Mom stayed in her Larder home until she moved to Kirkland in 2022. (Thank you to neighbours Ted, Jim, Kevin and Mitch for helping mom and Lakeshore apartment neighbours as well).
Many fond memories were made at “Grandma and Grandpa's house” where all the family gatherings took place. And the dinners were not complete without her tasty homemade buns.
We were blessed to have had her in our lives for so long.
She was the beloved wife of the late Neil Davreux (2018) and cherished mother of Lynn (Frank Spinato), Beverly (Richard LaPorte), Brenda (Whalen Hong) and Darlene (Joe Horne). Lovingly remembered by her six granddaughters, Joanna (Hassan), Cristina, Vanessa (Brian), Jennifer, Jessica (Donny), Emily (Devon). Great-grandma to Jonah, Isaac, Kobe, Daphne, Jaxson, Boden, and Brantley. Remembered by sister-in-law Marion Morris, brother-in-law Maurice Hammond, close friends Sharon Allen and Pat Hurst, and many nieces, nephews friends and neighbours.
The family wishes to extend heartfelt thanks to the many health care professionals for their support and compassion throughout mom's journey, including Amber, Steph, the VON caregivers, Donna, Tara, Dr. Moore, Dr. Kurki, and Jen and Jenn (Palliative Care nurses).
Respecting Mom's wishes, cremation has taken place.
To honour mom's memory, friends and neighbours are invited to attend a reception at the Timiskaming Funeral Cooperative – Kirkland Lake on Monday, March 31, 2025 11 am. to
1 pm. where we will share stories, photos, laughter and tears.
A graveside service will take place at a later date at Riverside Cemetery, Hartney, Manitoba where her ashes will be interred next to Neil.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Timiskaming Hospice Palliative Care, 145 Government Rd E, Suite 407, Kirkland Lake ON P2N 3P4 or a charity of your choice.
You have earned your rest, Mom. We will forever miss your quiet presence in our lives.
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Lynn, Beverly, Brenda and Darlene
It is with great sadness that I learned of your Mom's passing today. She was a mini-dynamo. I have many fond memories of her, Pat and Mrs. Allen stopping for a quick chat as they toured by the house doing Mach 1. Larder was a very special place to grow up in because of umbrella of caring that the "Mom's network" had in place over the whole town. They looked out for all the kids in town. She will be greatly missed but at peace being placed near her soul mate.
All the families
Sincere condolences to all in this difficult time
Davreux family
My sincere condolences to the Davreux family at this difficult time
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Brenda, Whalen, Jennifer, Jessica, Emily and families
We are so sorry for your loss and extend our heartfelt condolences to you all. May your memories of happy times together be a comfort to you.
Lynn,Beverly,Brenda,Darlene and families
Our most sincere sympathy to you and your families.
She was a very loving lady. We enjoyed our visits and will miss her Xmas letters when she caught us up on her family happenings. She will be missed!
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Families
It has been my pleasure to know Lorraine since her first day in Larder Lake. Back then our families met ,and enjoyed many dinners together. I pushed the girls in my doll carriage all over our yard. Lol. It’s a pleasure to know you all these years. Until we meet again. My condolences in your passing. Wishes ladies and families great memories.️. Mom and Dad will meet you in heaven.
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Lynn and all of your family
What a beautiful description of your loving momma and her life. I have fond memories of your parents.. a beautiful couple. Brought back memories. You were blessed to have her for many yrs. My condolences to you.
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Lynn, Beverly, Brenda, Darlene and famalies.
Condolences from the Swayne famalies.
Lynn, Bev, Brenda and Darlene,
Hello cousins. My deepest condolences with the passing of Aunt Lorraine. She was truly a remarkable woman.
The obituary was a beautiful tribute to her. Well done!
Love
Marguerite ️
Brenda and Family
So sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom and Grandma. She sounds like she was a wonderful, and impressive woman. Thinking of you all during this time.
The Davereux Family
Aww— I’m so sorry to learn of Lorraine’s passing !
She was one amazing lady !
In years gone by I was one of the cross country ski crew — until I couldn’t do it anymore . Lorraine beat me by a country mile in her abilities in winter activities — .
Her long time friends will surely miss her as will her family .
She lived a long active and happy life .
She has earned her rest !
Sincere condolences from
Dave and I .
Brenda and Family
Please accept my condolences and those of my family on your loss. It is never easy to lose a beloved parent, but your to mother had a long and fulfilling life. She leaves behind a truly wonderful family to carry on her legacy. The stories that will be shared will help maintain her memory in your hearts. My grandmother was a Scharff so I understand the continued ties to Hartney and area. They may have lived in Northen Ontario but were always Manitobans. All my love to you my friend.
Mike Bowman
The Davreux family
My sincere condolences to all of you in this time of grief.
I fondly remember seeing all of you on a daily basis growing up just up the street.
Your dad's whistling and your mom's smile are etched in my memory :)
Take good care of each other.
The Davreux family
Sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Sincere condolences.
Brenda & family
So sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing, condolences to all the family.
Lorraine’s Family
So sorry to read about Lorraine’s passing. She was a lovely woman, always friendly and smiling.I will miss her. My sincere condolences to all the family.
Lorraine's Family
I was born in Boissevain, Manitoba, a short distance from Hartney. I met Neil & Lorraine through the Larder Lake Senior's Club and enjoyed many games of shuffleboard with them, and fondly remember them. My deepest condolences to the family.
Davreux family
My sincere condolences to the family.
Lynn, Beverly, Brenda & Darlene
My deepest condolences on the loss of your mother, may she rest in peace.
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All the family
Heartfelt sympathies to the family, she was a lovely lady, so sorry for your loss.
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The Davreux family
Condolences to the family on the passing of a wonderful Lady
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Lorraine’s family
So sorry to read of Lorraine’s passing. She was an incredible lady. She will certainly be missed but will live on in the memory of many. May she RIP. Sincere condolences to the family.
Dianne and Bill Edge
The Davreux Family
My deepest sympathies - I met Lorraine when I first moved to Larder Lake in 2020 , a very lovely sweet woman - we did a few snowshoe walks together. She will be greatly missed but always in our hearts.
Lynn, Frank, Joanne and Cristina and family
So very sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. May all your wonderful memories bring you comfort during this difficult time.
Lynn, Darlene, Brenda and families
I’m so sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing. She was a very kind and gentle woman.
May your happy memories help to soothe your broken hearts.
Davreux family, Christina and Sharon.
Deepest sympathy on the loss of your Mom, grandma and friend.
The Davreux Family
We are sending our deepest condolences to all of you. Lorraine was a really wonderful person - certainly one of a kind! She touched so many people with her kind & caring acts and we feel honoured to have known her. Mom enjoyed cross country skiing & walking & visiting with her. She was a true & special friend & we all loved her
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Davreux family
Deepest condolences to the family
You will be missed
Carmen Jasmin (Charbonneau)
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Lynn Darlene Bev Brenda and families
Jack and I and family were saddened to hear of Lorraine’s passing. Many fond memories were made down at the Barrows farm with Marge and Harvey and kids. Loraine was a kind considerate lady that always had everyone’s best interests at heart ️. Keep your fondest memories of her. She will be up in heaven watching over each and everyone of you . Cherish your memories. They are ours to keep
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Brenda, Bev, Lynn & Darlene & families
In memory of Lorraine, a gracious, kind and beautiful lady in every way. The world has been a lovelier place because of her being in it. Our condolences to the family. Rest in peace, Lorraine.
Darlene,Brenda,Beverly, Lynn and families
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. Your mother was a very kind, lovely lady.
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The Davreux Family
My sincere condolences to the family. RIP Mrs Davreux.
Lynn, Beverly, Brenda and Darlene
So sorry to hear about your mother’s passing. She was a lovely woman that will be missed by many who knew her. Sincere condolences to all the family.
